Gaylen Bendewald

Many of the men and couples I work with feel stuck in cycles around pornography, sexual habits, or intimacy concerns that are quietly eroding confidence and connection. These struggles often come with anxiety, low mood, and a lot of shame - even when everything else in life looks "fine." I regularly work with individuals and couples together when sexual concerns are impacting trust, communication, and intimacy. I am a capable guide who will respect your individuality and choices along the way while providing you a sureness of foot that only experience can provide. My approach is practical, non-shaming, and grounded in real relationship dynamics. I don't moralize sexual behavior - we focus on impact, values, and choice. This work for me is finding the right solutions. Solutions that lead you and your partner to places that ultimately make sense to both of you, they are right for you. I am honest and joy filled, a good humored guy, unwaveringly convinced of the essential goodness that underlies all of us, even when we fail. For a "better feel" for who I am, take a look at my blog on my website. Specialties: I help individuals and couples with their sexual issues and concerns.

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