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Does it feel like your inner critic has been getting its way for far too long? It’s always berating you, saying: “Nothing you do is ever good enough”... “There isn’t even much going on right now, why are you so overwhelmed?”... “You knew waiting until the last second would be awful, why do you have to waste so much time making everything perfect?”... Intuitively, you know the Critic is separate from who you are, but it gets so loud and persistent sometimes that your self-esteem can’t help but take a hit. You’re constantly feeling guilty, shameful, anxious, and small, and don’t know how to feel better. I specialize in helping introspective adults who are struggling with anxiety challenges like people-pleasing & perfectionism, suffering from trauma from narcissistic abuse, or navigating being a highly sensitive person. Together, we can work to untangle the falsely held beliefs your inner critic so insidiously perpetuated and help you trust yourself again. At the core of my approach to therapy is a belief that you matter and that your experiences are valid. In our work together, we’ll cultivate awareness of how your past affects your present, allowing you to make better decisions for your future. What would your life look like if the only approval you needed was your own? Reach out to schedule a free consult. Specialties: I offer a compassionate and validating space for adults who feel like they're never good enough, constantly walking on eggshells around others, or habitually apologizing for how they feel. I help you take back control of your life by better understanding yourself and your reactions to respond differently in the future. Visit my website to learn more about my approach and how I can help! Credentials & Experience: I've completed trainings focused on neurobiology and awareness, developmental trauma, attachment styles, and somatic exercises to help my clients struggling with narcissistic abuse from a parent or partner, challenges with people-pleasing and perfectionism, and HSPs. Visit my website to learn more!
"My approach to therapy is rooted in cultivating awareness. The more you're aware of, the more you're able to see what's loving for yourself and those around you, and the better you're able to make decisions that honor who you truly are. When you trust your inner world, your light shines from within, illuminating the world around you."
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Free Consultation
15 min · In Person
Individual Therapy
50 min · In Person
Qualifications
Verified by Calm at Home
Licensed · MA, LPCC
Ryan Drewianka · Verified June 2026
Education and Years in Practice
Attended Saint Mary's University of Minnesota, MA, Counseling & Psychological Services in , Graduated 2021
Additional Credentials
Membership from Association for Humanistic Psychology
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HSA/FSA cards are a great tax-advantaged way to pay for therapy services. I can also provide a detailed receipt to my out-of-network clients to help them receive reimbursement directly. To learn more or schedule a consultation, visit my website and we can figure out how to make therapy affordable.
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Available for in-person sessions
8673 Eagle Point Blvd Ste 203
Lake Elmo, MN, 55042 map
My approach to therapy is rooted in cultivating awareness. The more you're aware of, the more you're able to see what's loving for yourself and those around you, and the better you're able to make decisions that honor who you truly are. When you trust your inner world, your light shines from within, illuminating the world around you.
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