Jacob M Hamlin

Many of my ideal clients are adults and couples of all genders who feel stuck, ashamed, anxious, or alone around sex. Some are facing pornography concerns, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, desire differences, unwanted sexual patterns, sexual grief, painful or difficult sex, pelvic floor pain, sexual avoidance, or religious/moral conflict. My practice helps clients slow down shame without judgment, understand their sexual story, communicate more honestly, and move toward choices that fit their values, faith, identity, relationships, bodies, and sense of self. I am an AASECT certified sex therapist and LMFT offering online sex therapy for adults and couples in New Mexico and Kentucky. I help with sexual shame, pornography concerns, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, desire differences, sexual anxiety, and values-based sexual decision-making. Sex can be hard to talk about, especially when shame, fear, rejection, or years of silence are involved. You do not have to explain everything perfectly to begin. If you are looking for direct, respectful, non-shaming help, reach out and simply say, “I’m interested in sex therapy.” Specialties: I specialize in sex therapy, men's issues, and compulsive sexual patterns. I help adults and couples work through sexual shame, pornography concerns, desire differences, performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, sexual avoidance, and relationship strain. My approach is direct, non-shaming, trauma-informed, relational, and values-conscious. Credentials & Experience: I have 16 years of clinical experience helping adults with sexual concerns, shame, trauma, relationship distress, compulsive patterns, and emotional avoidance. I offer direct, respectful, values-conscious care for clients navigating sex, faith, identity, and relationships.

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