About
As a Gottman-informed therapist, I help couples strengthen connection, rebuild trust, and communicate more effectively. Using the Gottman Couples Checkup, we identify strengths and growth areas, creating a roadmap for lasting change. I work best with couples ready to deepen understanding, manage conflict constructively, and foster a sense of friendship and shared meaning. My approach is warm, research-based, and focused on practical, lasting relationship growth. I help couples reconnect and feel close again. Using the Gottman Couples Checkup and proven methods from the Gottman Institute, I guide you to better understand each other, communicate with care, and move through conflict without hurting the relationship. Together, we work to rebuild trust, deepen emotional intimacy, and create connection that feels good. Most couples prefer to feel understood, valued, and close again. If that’s what you’re seeking, you’re not alone. Taking the first step can open the door to a relationship that feels more connected, supportive, and secure. If you would like to just get through an evening without feeling blamed or criticized, you have come to the right place to learn how.
"Using Gottman's Couples Checkup, we identify your relationship's strengths and growth areas. Then we build skills based on your results.. Skills like non-blaming communication and emotional regulation, accepting influence, responding to bids for connection, repair attempts, etc...helping you feel more connected and supported through a meaningful, enjoyable process."
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Free Consultation
15 min · Online
Individual Therapy
50 min · Online
Couples Therapy
50 min · Online
Qualifications
Verified by Calm at Home
Licensed · MA, MSS, LMFT
Triva A. Ponder · Verified April 2026
Education and Years in Practice
Attended University of Santa Monica , in , Graduated 2008
Additional Credentials
Membership from Board of Behavioral Sciences
2017
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I will provide a superbill to submit to your insurance for potential reimbursement. Please call your insurance company to discuss reimbursement rates for out of network providers, like me. Please reach out to me with any questions.
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Using Gottman's Couples Checkup, we identify your relationship's strengths and growth areas. Then we build skills based on your results.. Skills like non-blaming communication and emotional regulation, accepting influence, responding to bids for connection, repair attempts, etc...helping you feel more connected and supported through a meaningful, enjoyable process.
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