Holly Nelson

You imagined a relationship full of connection, intimacy, and ease — but somewhere along the way, it changed. You feel more like roommates than lovers. Maybe you grew up with shame around sex, never learned how to talk about your needs, or you’ve been avoiding intimacy because of pain, anxiety, trauma, or pressure. Life gets busy, desire doesn’t line up, and suddenly the spark feels distant. Deep down, you miss feeling wanted, confident, and close. You want sex to feel safe, exciting, and meaningful again. You’re not alone — and you don’t have to keep struggling in silence. I help couples and individuals heal sexual shame, painful sex, sexual anxiety, low desire, and sexual trauma so they can rebuild emotional and physical intimacy. My approach is trauma-informed, queer- and kink-affirming, and tailored to your unique needs using EFT, sex therapy, EMDR, and sensate focus. If you’re ready to feel connected again — emotionally, physically, and sexually — reaching out is the first and hardest step. I’d be honored to support you in creating a safer, more intimate, and more fulfilling relationship. Holly Nelson, LPC, NCC, Scottsdale therapist specializing in sex therapy, sexual trauma, painful sex, libido differences and intimacy. **Specialties:** I help individuals and couples heal sexual shame, pain, anxiety, and trauma using EMDR, EFT, and sex therapy. Together, we work toward sexual wholeness, building safety, confidence, and connection so you can enjoy a more empowered, fulfilling relationship with your body, your sexuality, and your partner (if in a relationship). **Credentials & Experience:** I have over 6 years of experience helping couples and individuals navigate sexual shame, pain, anxiety, and sexual trauma. I am EMDR certified, EFT trained, and currently pursuing my AASECT sex therapy certification, specializing in neurodivergence and sexual trauma.

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