Interpersonal Communication Skills Test
I make a conscious effort not to cut people off, even when I can predict where they're headed with their thoughts.
It bothers me when people don't see things my way during discussions.
When there's tension with someone, I don't let it simmer. I initiate a conversation to resolve it quickly.
I never hesitate to ask for clarification, even if my question might sound silly to others.
I sometimes miss the signs that someone I'm speaking with is upset or feeling down.
I pay attention to how my voice tone and physical gestures impact the people around me.
It's uncommon for others to request that I say something again because they didn't catch it.
People tell me I seem distracted or tuned out during serious talks.
I communicate my ideas in a straightforward and understandable manner.
I tend to keep personal details to myself, particularly with acquaintances or new people.
If I realize I was mistaken after disagreeing with someone, I make a point to apologize and correct myself.
Discussing emotions isn't something I find easy or natural.
I often lose interest or feel restless when listening to others speak.
I feel comfortable and relaxed when interacting with strangers or new acquaintances.
What I say frequently gets misinterpreted by other people.
I have a knack for picking up on subtle cues like gestures or expressions from those I'm with.
In conversations where I disagree, I make an effort to see things from the other person's perspective.
Others often seek me out when they need advice or support with personal issues.
I'm confident in my ability to break down complicated topics for those who aren't as familiar with them.
Conversations tend to make me feel uneasy, and I often trip over my words.
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What You Should Know
- Active listening, empathy, and the ability to clearly and directly express one's thoughts and feelings are all important skills for good interpersonal communication.
- Some people are naturally better at these skills than others. For example, empathy is a trait that most people have to some degree, but some people are naturally more (or less) empathic than others.
- For partners, friends, and family members to get along well, they need to be able to communicate with each other. When people close to you talk to you with criticism or contempt, or stop talking to you altogether, intimacy suffers and the relationship may end.
- Even though personality traits or technical skills are sometimes more important than communication skills, they are important for most jobs. Leaders, in particular, can gain a lot from learning about different ways to talk to people and using them in the right way.
- People who are good at talking to others in many situations can still improve their communication skills. Practicing certain verbal and nonverbal behaviors, like repeating what someone said back to them, can help you become a better active listener.
Change Now
Build on what others say: Recognizing and expanding on what others have said keeps the conversation going.
Don't be afraid to share personal information. You don't have to tell everyone everything about yourself, but sharing personal information when it's appropriate can help you connect with others.
Talk to a pro. A mental health professional can help you figure out what skills you need to work on and how to get better at them.
