Narcissism Test
I frequently daydream about achieving boundless success, power, or physical attractiveness.
I believe I should always receive the highest level of respect and consideration, no matter what the situation might be.
It really bothers me when someone else becomes the main focus of attention.
I'm not entirely sure I would excel in a leadership role.
I become frustrated when others don't meet my expectations or give me what I desire.
It irritates me when someone else takes the spotlight away from me.
Revealing my weaknesses to other people doesn't come naturally to me.
I enjoy drawing attention to myself and my accomplishments.
There's plenty I can gain from listening to and learning from others.
I won't feel content until I receive everything I believe I'm entitled to.
I feel a sense of satisfaction when my competitors don't succeed.
I often anticipate receiving preferential treatment from those around me.
I begin to doubt my self-worth when I'm not being noticed or acknowledged.
I have a strong feeling that I'll achieve widespread recognition in the future.
My main goal is simply to find a decent level of happiness in life.
I find it fairly straightforward to influence or control people to get what I want.
I sometimes overlook or ignore what other people are feeling or needing.
Being in a position of power over others matters a great deal to me.
I feel nervous and embarrassed when others become aware of my deeper desires or vulnerabilities.
I'm convinced the world would improve significantly if I were in charge.
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What you should know
People often use the words "narcissism" and "narcissistic personality disorder" interchangeably, but narcissism is a trait that everyone has to some degree, while narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition that can be diagnosed.
- There are three main types of narcissism: grandiose or overt narcissism, vulnerable or covert narcissism, and high-functioning or exhibitionist narcissism.
- Research estimates that narcissistic personality disorder affects between 1% and 6% of people at some point in their lives. The percentage for men (7.7 percent) is higher than the percentage for women (4.8 percent).
- Some of the most important signs of narcissistic personality disorder are a grandiose sense of self-importance, dreams of unlimited power and success, a need for excessive admiration, exploitation and manipulation, and a lack of empathy.
- People who are narcissistic usually can't build long-lasting, trusting relationships.
- Signs that you are in a relationship with a narcissistic person are being cut off from family and friends, being put down, being manipulated, and being criticised and competed with a lot.
- It is very hard to treat narcissistic personality disorder, but with the right skills, patience, and time, it is possible to make progress.
- Effective treatment involves several steps, such as relieving distress, finding ways to cope, forming new habits, and learning what empathy means.
Change
Learn how to communicate better. People can become less self-centred by learning to listen, ask questions, and see things from someone else's point of view.
Change your habits: Find out what makes you act narcissistic and what makes you do it. Picture how you would like to respond, stop yourself from reacting, and then respond in a new way.
Get therapy. A mental health professional who knows how to treat narcissistic personality disorder can help you understand yourself better and make changes.
