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Jealousy Test (Men)

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1

I check in with my partner to confirm they're at the location they told me about.

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2

The thought that another guy might be trying to win over my partner makes me uneasy.

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3

Sometimes I question whether my partner's past lovers were more skilled in bed than I am.

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4

I'd avoid bringing my partner to gatherings where good-looking single men might be present.

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5

It bothers me when my partner mentions how attractive another man is.

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6

I worry that my partner could reconnect with an ex-partner.

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7

I've flirted with other women intentionally to upset my partner.

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8

I inquire about who my partner is speaking with during phone calls.

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9

I have a hunch that my partner might be meeting someone else without telling me.

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10

Seeing my partner flirt with someone else makes me angry.

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11

I get the feeling my partner has their eye on someone other than me.

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12

I have complete confidence that my partner truly loves and wants me.

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13

I've expressed to my partner that my life would feel empty without them.

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14

Watching my partner hug other men makes me feel anxious.

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15

I highlight the imperfections of other men when talking to my partner.

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16

I prefer to stay informed about where my partner is and what they're doing.

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17

I ask my partner questions about their past romantic experiences.

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18

I boast about my partner's qualities to my guy friends.

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19

I step into conversations when I notice my partner chatting with another man.

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20

I would get into a physical altercation with anyone who flirts with my partner.

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What You Should Know

  • Evolutionary psychologists say that jealousy can be good for relationships in small amounts. It demonstrates the significance of the relationship and the intention to preserve one's partner.
  • Researchers think that jealousy might be a way to keep parents together for the sake of their kids.
  • Men and women frequently handle jealousy in distinct manners. Men are more likely to be jealous of the idea of physical infidelity. Women are more likely to feel jealous when someone is emotionally unfaithful.
  • There is evidence that jealousy is partially genetically inherited. A study indicated that genetic factors accounted for 29 percent of the variation in jealousy among individuals.
  • Certain personality traits predispose individuals to jealousy. Studies have shown that people who are neurotic, which means they are moody, critical, and anxious, are more likely to be jealous.

What to Do

  • Accept your feelings. Jealousy is a normal part of relationships, and it has been around for a long time. Be aware, but don't be hard on yourself if you feel a little jealous.

  • Let go of the past. If you keep thinking about your partner's past relationships, remember that there is a reason why they are with you now and not someone else.

  • Talk about it: Tell me how you feel and what might be causing it. Tell us what actions make you feel the most jealous and which ones you can handle.

Jealousy Test (Men)